Wedding planning support for every partnership

Love the idea of working weddings and believe in a process centered around humanity?

THE PRIVILEGE IS MINE is your alternative wedding planning collective, offering diverse wedding support packages, to reflect the diversity of our couples.
We believe in supporting and advocating for each of our couple's visions, ideas and partnerships.  No two weddings are the same, there is absolutely no right way to do a wedding, so it is our job to support and encourage without judgement.  We focus on approaching weddings in a "stress-less" way, nurturing the uniqueness of each couple.  
We work with all clients using humanity, kindness, compassion, creativity, collaboration and fun at the forefront of our planning.
We are inspired by the diversity of New York City, therefor our team represents that. We are your no fuss, "non wedding planner-y," wedding planners... who are cool, calm and collected. We are organized, communicative and move fast. We keep the wedding planning space, chill and judgement free.  Sound like something you could vibe with?



FULL TIME HEAD EVENT PLANNER will report to TPIM Founder and owner Lara Mahler.

Job Overview:

THE PRIVILEGE IS MINE prides themselves on their “stress-less” approach to planning. Couple’s like working with us because we attack wedding planning with humanity, collaboration, creativity, fun and an overall understanding that inclusivity in the wedding industry means supporting ALL couples no matter their gender, race, partner preference, religion and class. We offer our specialty packages as well as offer accessible alternatives so that everyone feels seen.
A TPIM head planner is creative, collaborative, intuitive, works well under pressure, approaches weddings with humanity and creativity while navigating the process efficiently, minimizing stress and resonating “chill vibes.”  

Responsibilities and Duties include but are not limited to:
-Daily checkins with founder Lara Mahler
-Weekly team meetings with founder Lara Mahler & TPIM team
-Quarterly TPIM review meetings
-Taking intro calls with potential clients
-Working with our TPIM clients on their COORDINATION 60 & 30 packages
-Execute day of weddings, up to 12 hours of service (Must be available on weekends)
-Representing the TPIM brand to vendors, venues and potential TPIM clients
-Support and work along side TPIM founder Lara Mahler with:
Venue and Vendor outreach + Partnerships
TPIM Full planning and Partial planning couples
Brainstorming future community event opportunities and supporting research in future event partnerships 

-College degree or equivalent and at least 2 years experience working or planning weddings in New York City.
-You must be based in New York City and must legally be able to work in the US.
-Must have great written and verbal communication and be proficient in sales.
We are looking for someone who is inspired in a small business setting and who is looking to grow with a growing company. We are looking for self starters with a good work ethic who can get tasks done quickly and efficiently and have great attention to detail and creativity. Knowledge of, Showit, Dubsado, Canva and Mailchimp are a plus but not essential….but most importantly we are looking for individuals who align with our wedding morals

Time Commitment and Salary:
This is a Full Time position, committing to 36 hours/wk.
We believe in the importance of work life balance, therefor Fridays are half days.
Starting base salary- $51,840 & not including quarterly incentive bonuses.
Annual 5% raise. 

Flexible hours
401K & after 6 month trial period 401K matching
Paid sick days
Paid holidays
Paid family leave
$200 monthly health insurance stipend


To apply, please email with your resume and fill out the application below:

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